Sutra 2. Sa twasmin parama prema rupaa.
That
(devotion), verily, is of the nature of supreme Love of God.
Sa:
That (i.e., Bhakti)
tu:
But;
Asmin: in
this
Parama:
Supreme
Prema: Love
Rupaa: Form.
SA - THAT (Bhakti)

Mark how love
develops. First arises attraction. Then follows faith and after that Adoration
leads to suppression of mundane desires. The result is single-mindedness and
satisfaction. Then grow attachment and supreme love towards God.
In this type
of highest Bhakti all attraction and attachment which one has for objects of
enjoyment are transferred to the only dearest object, viz., God. This leads the
devotee to an eternal union with his Beloved and culminates in oneness.
Bhakti is
divided into two kinds, viz., Apara Bhakti or Gauna Bhakti and Para Bhakti.
Apara Bhakti is the lower or initial stage of devotion of an aspirant following
the path of Bhakti, while Para Bhakti is the highest stage of Bhakti.
The
relationship of the devotee with the Lord in various stages is beautifully
described here. Three stages of devotion (bhakti) are explained thus:
1. Thamaivaaam (I am Thine) - affirms I am Yours,
2. Mamaiva-thwam (You are mine) and
3. Thwame-Vaaham (Thou art I) - You and I are One, the Same.
Each is just a step in the rising series and the last is the highest step of all.
Tham-eva-aham, the Lord is fully free and Devotee is fully bound (it is like the cat & the kitten). The cat shifts the kitten about as it wills; the kitten just mews and accepts whatever happens. This attitude is very gentle and is within easy reach of all.
Second Stage

Remember the promise the Lord made in the Githa 'Yogakshemam Vahaaamyaham', "I carry the burden of his welfare".
Third and Final Stage
Next about the third stage: "Thwamevaaham ithi thridhaa"; this is the Avibhaktha -Bhakthi, the inseparable devotion. The devotee offers all to the Lord, including himself, for he feels that he cannot withhold himself.

“when I
think of myself as an embodied being. I am your servant; when I think of myself
as an individual soul, I am part of you; but when I realize ‘I am Atman’ I am
one with you. This is my firm conviction.”
Continued........