Narada Bhakti Sutra - Post 69

Sutra 63. Stree Dhana Naastika Vairi charitram na sravaneeyam.

[Stories or description of women, wealth, atheists or enemy should not be listened to.]

Stree-Dhana-Naastika-Vairi Charitram: Descriptions or the behavior or conduct of women, wealth and ungodly persons (who deny the authority of the Vedas and the existence of God) and of enemies

Na: not

Sravaneeyam: should be listened to.

In this Sutra, some obstacles to the development of devotion have been enumerated.

In spiritual lessons, we are taught something called “Collective Vasanas”. What is this Collective Vasana??

When there is Pralaya and the world / creation folds itself, then the world disappears but the impressions, the tendencies, the nature of all the individuals who die in the process of cessation of the creation, does not disappear.

The above can be well understood in the context of an Individual who dies. In the Hindu religion, we believe that a person undergoes several births and deaths before he realizes God and merges with the God in one birth.

Now, when the person dies, his physical body is burnt, his mind is dissolved but his karmas or his tendencies are all carried along with the 3^rd body called Karana Sarira. When he is reborn, the impressions carried forward at the time of his death, are brought back in his next birth and they are called “Sanskaras”. These Sanskaras manifest into active impressions which are called Vasanas. 

Now, take this example and magnify the same and apply the death of all the human beings during Pralaya and during the next evolution process of the creation, just in the case of individual death and rebirth, all the carried impressions of all individuals collectively are again manifested as “Collective Vasanas” in the next evolution of the universe.

Thus, with each yuga, God just creates a world which is conducive to the manifestation of the Vasanas of all the beings collectively.

To be more clear, let us see -  What would have been the collective vasanas in Tretha Yuga? How the Ayodhya vasis would have been living, What topics they would be discussing? What impressions they would perhaps be having???? They had nothing to talk / nothing to think / nothing to carry as impressions except their RAM.

In the Dvapara yuga, there was some deterioration of the culture and hence, along with good people with good thoughts and good talks, many bad people in the form of many asuras etc. came up.

Now, in this Kali yuga, we can imagine, how much the collective vasanas / impressions of the human beings have undergone deterioration!!

So, obviously, there would be talks / there would be people leading lives and deliberately or even innocently trying to spread their own ideas, their own approach to life, to the people around, in the society around!!!

Now, to what all a spiritual aspirant would get to hear when he is in the company of people who talk things to take him away from his spiritual path and to pull him into this world, in the Kali Yuga??

Regarding Woman, such group of people would say “A thing of beauty is a Joy forever”, “Sathyam Shivam Sundaram", "Are Moorak, Woman are God’s beautiful creation, you must enjoy their beauty and not run away from the same”, “ What is there in going to various women, after all, variety is required in Life” etc. etc.

Regarding wealth, such perverted minds would say - “Spirituality is not to be practiced in forest, in aloofness, you should enjoy all the wealth, all the prosperity”, they would have the example of  how King Janaka lead his life, to quote to prove their argument.

Regarding God, there would be people to say, 

“Has any one seen God?? All these ideas of Gods are created by human beings, why believe in all these things?” 

or, 

“About your Guru, how do you know that he is pure and perfect?? He looks normal, he dresses normal, he also leads life like you only, why you are foolishly keeping him at a higher pedestal than yourself?” 

or 

“Enjoy this world, God, spirituality etc. can be taken up later on, otherwise, in your old age, you are bound to cry and say, O, I missed everything in life in search of God who is abstract and I got neither God, nor this world”.

( Na Khuda hi Mila, na visaale Sanam!!!)

A Bhakta, even at a higher level in his devotion, must take care not to be in such group of people. After all he also has a mind which can deceive him any time. Such talks will slowly poison his mind and then, he falls into the pit of this Maya Jagath!!

Why say,“Spirituality is actually proven when one practices the same even standing in a prostitute street”. 

Better not to take such risk, better to be in satsangh, better to be only in Godly thoughts, better only to be in our scriptures!!!

The glittering objective pleasures of wine, wealth, woman etc. have the potential to lure a sadhaka even at his advanced stage and therefore, till the time one attains Self-realization, one should always stay far away from all these attractions!!

Love.